A family member’s sexual abuse left a profound impact on one individual, who kept the experience secret for years. As an adult, conversations with her mother revealed a troubling family history of abuse, marked by vague warnings and a lack of proper education on the topic. During a holiday gathering, she and other women in her family shared their stories of abuse, realizing they were part of a larger cycle that allowed such behavior to persist. The author emphasizes the importance of open dialogue to break this cycle. By naming abuse, creating safe spaces for discussion, and normalizing conversations about boundaries and consent, families can work toward healing. The piece highlights the need to refuse normalization of abuse and to actively stand against sexual violence. Through her work with KCSARC, the author sees the potential for change by fostering an environment of safety and support. KCSARC offers a 24-hour resource line for those affected by sexual abuse, providing trained advocates to assist individuals seeking help.